What is my limit?

Aloha......[moment of silent]...

I have this moment of silent every time when I started to write a new post, without knowing how to start my post. Should I blah for a while before I go into main point or should I cut the crap and straight to point. I prefer the later one as I am a straight forward kind of person, most of the time.

So, let us quickly move into our point of today post, I just want to update you about my life lately. This blog used to be only for events recording, but i have no idea since when, it has become my web diary, I jotted down mostly everything happened in my life, and from time to time I will read them all over again to refresh my memory, to indulge in old happy times, to remind me of my failures, to keep me strong to keep fighting. Good memory is meant to be keep, bad one is meant to be a lesson of life that help you grow.

Last post I shared with you about "are you balance?", did you take the quiz? I feel sad if you do not take the quiz, quick quick do it now! After the quiz, and after listened to Keith's teaching about "checkpoints", it made me think. But thinking and learning are never enough, I need to take action, to turn theories into reality!

God is always good, anything happened in your life must be a reason, and it is planned. Trust me, I experienced that! It is all up to you how do you looking at it. God never give us anything which is beyond our ability. Yesterday I talked to a friend after I saw her pathetic personal message in MSN. I could remember vividly of our conversation.

Friend: This is my limit jor...=(
Me: This is NOT your limit, your limit is yet to be tested. This is your limit is just because YOU THINK SO!

Am I right, friends? Every time when we are in deep shit, the first thought that come into our mind is "I can't do this, I have reached my limit!" As I told her, grief over unexpected/expected sad cases is allow, yes, it is allow, but you can not allow yourself to be fully dwell in this feeling of grief and let the feeling of grief overcomes you, becomes your master! YOU SHOULD OVERCOME IT, stand and fight!

We have had enough complaints, negative thoughts around us, we do not need more! So, think positively! If you are a Christian, you should even live as example, as Proverbs 23:7 says "For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee".

When I shared this with a lots of my friends, they told me "Melisa, you know, talking is always easier than doing." I answered "if you don't even talk about it, I doubt you understand it". You get what I mean? And they told me "See you talking so easy, I also know how to talk la, but apply it into our life is hard" If you think it is hard, it is because YOU THINK it is.

Such a long post here, not even reached my point of this post...alright, guess I have to update you about my life in next post. Your comments/advises are always welcome, let's us learn and grow together!